The subject of my next book has got be thinking more and more about the “trader lifestyle” I have been designing since I was 17. At first it was just a dream, then a goal, but one I was willing to pay the price to have.
Then I got it. It was not what I thought it would be. You see, I thought I was trading for THE BIG BUCKS — when you are in your early 20s that seems to be the driving force of success. Then I learned it wasn’t so much money but freedom I was after.
Back on the 25th of July I posed a question: “What do you want from your trading?” and then followed that up with what I hope was a challenge, “Spreading myseld too thin? and Designing your ideal trading life!”
We all need to make a living. I am not going to insult your intelligence and say that money is irrelevant. But money itself is not the ends, it’s the means. I think we spend too little time thinking about what the ends ideally could be.
Inspiration, Despiration, Persperation.
I am reminded as I type this that this morning my husband it at a judo tournament. He’s not competing today. He’s there with his “kids”. He is a Sensei at a judo club in Ft. Lauderdale; he volunteers his time. Each Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday he coaches kids who probably would otherwise be roaming the streets, getting into trouble. These are all “at risk” kids living in neighborhoods in Ft. Lauderdale that most people don’t even want to drive through. He loves teaching these kids. In many ways, it’s the fulfillment of a dream he’s had: Help kids that other people have given up on. A few of the kids will be in the Olympics some day soon. I know it. They are already competitive on an international and national level.
I think about this because that’s what the ends are. It’s time well spent.
I think that often with all that our lives entail nowadays, we are really asleep through most of it. Have you ever seen that movie “Joe Versus the Volcano”? Yes, it’s a quirky movie, and actually a favorite of mine. Meg Ryan’s character (one of the three she played), Patricia Graynamore, had a great couple of lines and summed the movie up:
“My father says that almost the whole world is asleep. Everybody you know. Everybody you see. Everybody you talk to. He says that only a few people are awake and they live in a state of constant total amazement.”
I am conscious of what what I do: I am not no confusing myself with a hedge fund, managed account trader (tried it and hated it!), pit trader, or anything else like that. I don’t have a monitor in my bedroom or bathroom (not anymore!) and I ditched the fancy trading office for a far less glamorous, much more comfortable home office (love the commute!). I know what I do works for me and I am not tempted by other strategies although there are traders and authors that I still enjoy listening to. I don’t need to put down someone else strategy or analysis to make myself feel better about my own. And I’m never going to teach something I don’t actually do.
So back to my next book. I’m working with the steps I have always followed and gave them an acronym.
D.E.C.I.D.E.
(working title for the section in the book: “Mom was Right: You Have to Do Your Homework Before You Get to Play.”
D is for Direction (What is the market direction?)
E is for Entry (What are your entry options?)
C is for Chart (Chart the support and resistance)
I is for Investigate (Investigate the market environment. Research the hot zones, market correlations, confirmation indicators.)
Dis for Deal (Deal with price action. Let price dictate your trade, in forex quotes are called “dealing rates”.)
E is for Exit (Plan your exits.)
I am also going to discuss a lot about trading correlated markets. If you are a forex traders and are not looking at the “market pulse” charts of the dollar, Dow, crude, and gold you are not only missing out on how and when the Dollar Index is going to move, but you’re missing out on related trades in the futures and stock market. This last weekend I was in San Francisco. I was doing a presentation at the Money Show and doing a lot of shopping with my sister who came along for the trip. After my first talk, an attendee asked a sincere question: “How well have you done with forex this year?” I said basically, “pretty good”. Summer stunk for daily chart trades which are my preference for summer months, but I’m well ahead on the year. And then I added “Now ask me how my TRADING has been going this year.” He seemed a little confused until I said, “I trade forex, but I am not a just a forex trader. Trade all markets. Forex gives you a terrific vantage point to do this.”
I hope he got my point.
Here are a few things to remember.
(because common sense is not so common)
Think about what you want from your trading. Let it be what propels you through the good and bad days. Let it be what keeps you on the straight and narrow when you are tempted to try some new piece of software, magical indicator, or follow someone else’s buy and sell signals without caring to learn the how and whys.
No one cares more about your money than you do. Know why you are buying and selling. Know when you trade is no longer valid.
Understand your investments. The people on the TV and in the magazines don’t necessarily know more than you do, they just practice sounding like they do.
Back to Joe Versus the Volcano: After being told he had a brain cloud…”You have some time left, Mr. Banks. You have some life left. My advice to you is: live it well.” Well Joe Banks didn’t have a brain cloud but he finally designed his life.
- Raghee